Wednesday, May 20, 2009

be responsible for ur child

Lesson for today, once you have a child, you ARE responsible for him/her.

A man quit his job and he doesn't have any back up plans. His reason for quitting was job was too tough. So job, no income, how to support his children. Wife said if he doesn't contribute a single cent, their marriage is over. She will unceremoniously send a divorce letter to him.

Wife felt there isn't any point continuing on with the marriage anyway. Since the man has supplemented money just enough for his family to get by only because his wife scrimped and saved. He did not provide them with a proper roof over their heads and the family has to stay in people's home and 看脸色.

The point is, once you have children, you aren't living for yourself anymore. Even though your job is tough, you can't just quit without having any back up plans for your future. You need to spare a thought for your children. your actions will all have significant repercussions on your children...

The wife said she barely has enough money left to let her children have tuition. Even though her son didn't do well, there's nothing she can do because she simply can't afford ...

I cried... because i can feel her anguish and helplessness. A broken promise, a hurtful lie. That's all it takes to break down a marriage. The question of whether love lasts and promises hold, the truth is, i don't know.

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